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	<description>Joseph Duemer&#039;s blog about reading, writing, politics, birds, food, &#38; weather</description>
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		<title>Fugitive</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 17:46:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m about 90% certain I shared a house with this guy in Seattle in 1971. The guy I knew was calling himself Blake (not Dwight) Armstrong &#38; was a good guitar player. He introduced me to some of the old Seattle Wobblies &#38; seemed to know a lot about the Weather Underground, too. (I remember [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m about 90% certain I shared a house with <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/27/us/27armstrong.html?adxnnl=1&amp;hpw=&amp;adxnnlx=1277647267-UqdkvY3qIioKAqBEvwxqwQ">this guy</a> in Seattle in 1971. The guy I knew was calling himself <em>Blake</em> (not Dwight) Armstrong &amp; was a good guitar player. He introduced me to some of the old Seattle Wobblies &amp; seemed to know a lot about the Weather Underground, too. (I remember him talking briefly, once, about &#8220;self-criticism sessions.&#8221; Clearly, he was too much an anarchist to go in for that sort of Maoist groupthink. Liked red wine &amp; marijuana, but then we all did. The photo looks a lot like the person I knew, but I could be wrong. The juice cart / deli detail in the story also makes a connection &#8212; my roommate was into health foods long before they became a counter-culture staple. We got along pretty well: played some tennis at the park near the house, hung out a bit, but it was pretty clear he considered me hopelessly bourgeois &#8212; loaned me a copy of Marcuse&#8217;s <em>One Dimensional Man</em>, still an important book in my view. And I wonder what ever happened to Bruce Altman, a mad musician who also shared that house and later, after I was married, slept on my couch for three weeks before I helped him commit himself to an inpatient psychiatric facility. He&#8217;d been picking up secret messages from the radio late at night informing him about the impending revolution. Madness picks up the spirit of the times, I guess. My own madnesses were aesthetic &amp; sexual; in other words, I was hopelessly bourgeois. They were friends of my youth &amp; I miss them.</p>
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		<title>Imperial by William Vollmann (1)</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/06/26/imperial-by-william-vollmann-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 17:04:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think I need to keep a journal of my reading of this book. It is that big a world. I&#8217;ve reached page 108, near the end of a chapter Vollmann calls &#8220;Subdelineations: Lovescapes (2001),&#8221; the first of several chapter titles that begin with the word subdelineations that appear to be more personal in nature [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I need to keep a journal of my reading of this book. It is that big a world. I&#8217;ve reached page 108, near the end of a chapter Vollmann calls &#8220;Subdelineations: Lovescapes (2001),&#8221; the first of several chapter titles that begin with the word <em>subdelineations</em> that appear to be more personal in nature than the other chapters that, so far, have functioned, sometimes literally, as <em>delineations</em> of <em>Imperial </em>(the book) &amp; of Imperial County, an arid place in California. The book is both an attempt at knowledge and even understanding of this particular place as well as an admission of the impossibility of anything like the complete knowledge of a place, which would have to be, Vollmann notes, the sum total of all the people who have looked at it or lived in it however long or briefly. This first subdelineation is about the breakup of a love affair: Vollmann tells the reader that his lover of many years has left him. &#8220;I just can&#8217;t take this anymore,&#8221; she says, but we never know what<em> this</em> consists of. The author, wisely, I think, doesn&#8217;t say. Vollmann probably doesn&#8217;t know either; or he both knows and doesn&#8217;t know. What he does know is how it makes him feel and that is what this chapter is about. In order to understand Imperial (To italicize or not? County in California or book?), the reader must understand the author&#8217;s life in the place and his life in the book. It takes courage to write this way. This particular chapter is rawly emotional, but that&#8217;s only part of what I mean; it take aesthetic courage to believe so throughly in the inclusive principle of literary composition that you include what happened to you as you wrote the book. It&#8217;s impossible of course because it leads to an endless recursion, which is one definition of madness. Vollmann courts madness, but is one of the lucky few who are saved by the demands and strictures of his art. I like Vollmann. I admire his impulse toward the exhaustive. Reminds me a little of Norman Mailer, but without Mailer&#8217;s brittle <em>machismo</em>.</p>
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		<title>The Salton Sea</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/06/25/the-salton-sea/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 22:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I mentioned the Salton Sea in my previous post about Marisa Silver&#8217;s novel and I&#8217;ve just run across a documentary about the sea, Plagues and Pleasures on the Salton Sea, produced and directed by Chris Metzler and Jeff Springer and narrated by John Waters. It is not a particularly innovative piece of documentary film making, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I mentioned the <a href="http://www.saltonsea.ca.gov/thesea.htm">Salton Sea</a> in my previous post about Marisa Silver&#8217;s novel and I&#8217;ve just run across a documentary about the sea, <em>Plagues and Pleasures on the Salton Sea</em>, produced and directed by Chris Metzler and Jeff Springer and narrated by John Waters. It is not a particularly innovative piece of documentary film making, but it presents a portrait of the place and its people that may be of interest even to people who haven&#8217;t been there. There is a political undertone having to do with the allocation of water from the Colorado River, but the film doesn&#8217;t do much more than mention it. I&#8217;ve also begun reading William Vollmann&#8217;s massive study, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Imperial-William-T-Vollmann/dp/0670020613/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1277506158&amp;sr=8-2">Imperial</a></em>, which undertakes an exhaustive description of its eponymous California county, in which the Salton Sea figures prominently. Vollman&#8217;s 1000 page book was published with <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Imperial-William-T-Vollmann/dp/1576874893/ref=pd_sim_b_1">a companion volume</a> of the author&#8217;s photographs, which I have also now got on hand. Going back to my roots, you might say &#8212; however parched and salt-encrusted they may be. Some people find Vollmann&#8217;s meandering prose irritating, but so far I am charmed by it. Give me another six or seven hundered pages &amp; we&#8217;ll see!</p>
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		<title>The God of War by Marisa Silver</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/06/24/the-god-of-war-by-marisa-silver/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 21:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I bought this novel because it is set very near to places I grew up in Southern California. Specifically, the novel is set in Bombay Beach, next to the Salton Sea in Imperial County, California. The book catches the desolation of the place and of the people who live there in language of Sopheclean directness. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I bought this novel because it is set very near to places I grew up in Southern California. Specifically,<a href="http://www.amazon.com/God-War-Novel-Marisa-Silver/dp/B003E7ET2G/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1277413946&amp;sr=8-1"> the novel</a> is set in Bombay Beach, next to the Salton Sea in Imperial County, California. The book catches the desolation of the place and of the people who live there in language of Sopheclean directness. My grandfather lived in the Imperial Valley from around 1900 until his death at 94 about thirty years ago &amp; I spent many school vacations baking in the 100 degree heat. No landscape moves me as much as that of western Imperial County, with its bare mountains of tumbled rock descending to the sandy floor of the valley. It is surely among the <a href="http://quickfacts.census.gov/qfd/states/06/06025.html">poorest counties</a> in the state, same as<a href="http://quickfacts.census.gov/qfd/states/36/36089.html"> the one I live in now</a>, in Northern New York &#8212; both are far from the center, affording people greater freedom (of a certain kind) as well as greater risks than wealthier, more settled places nearer the capitals. The greatest risk, perhaps, is loneliness.</p>
<p>Silver&#8217;s novel demonstrates what can be accomplished with the basic materials of realist narrative and style. The story is recounted by Ares, now an adult but recalling events that occurred when he was twelve. The plot is rigorously chronological and the prose limpid and without a hint of authorial narcissism. Ares and his younger half-brother Malcolm, who is severely autistic, live with their single mother in a trailer in Bombay Beach, on the Salton Sea. Laurel, the boys&#8217; mother, has fled the pieties and restraints of a Midwestern childhood and come to rest in the desolation of Imperial County. The novel&#8217;s plot is too delicate a machine to summarize, but from the opening pages it is apparent that some terrible event will divide the characters&#8217; lives into a stark before and an after. If the heroes of the Greek theater were doomed by the capricious but implacable decrees of the Gods, the ordinary people in this story are propelled toward their fates by the implacability of mere chance. But Ares, the god of war, discovers comes to rest in the strength bestowed by integrity &#8212; his mother&#8217;s, his brother&#8217;s, and his own.</p>
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		<title>The Art of Losing Isn&#8217;t Hard To Master</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/06/23/the-art-of-losing-isnt-hard-to-master/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 13:10:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend from long ago posted some pictures of me &#38; others (circa 1975) on Facebook recently that really, as they say, brought the memories flooding back. For many reasons &#8212; some of which I&#8217;m aware of &#38; some probably not &#8212; I have been the sort of person who leaves people behind, a trait [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A friend from long ago posted <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/photo.php?pid=31236092&amp;id=1474351755">some pictures of me &amp; others</a> (circa 1975) on Facebook recently that really, as they say, brought the memories flooding back. For many reasons &#8212; some of which I&#8217;m aware of &amp; some probably not &#8212; I have been the sort of person who leaves people behind, a trait I have often regretted, but never managed to change. Perhaps I have been too selfish to exert the effort to maintain friendship across time &amp; space. Perhaps I have wanted to preserve my memories without the complexities of present time. An only child, I have always tended to be secretive &amp; emotionally distant, I think. The internet, though, has provided something I never could have expected, putting me back in touch with people going back to when I was 14 years old. Here is a picture with Mady Lund, taken by Jim Cervantes in 1976 &#8212; it captures an era &amp; for me at least a whole universe of feeling.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.sharpsand.net/wp-content/uploads/joe_mady_1974.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-2218];player=img;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2221" style="margin-top: 4px; margin-bottom: 4px; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; border: 2px solid black;" title="joe_mady_1974" src="http://www.sharpsand.net/wp-content/uploads/joe_mady_1974-300x196.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="196" /></a></p>
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		<title>A Birthday Kiss</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/06/03/a-birthday-kiss/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 19:43:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jd</dc:creator>
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		<title>Birthday Enso</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/05/31/birthday-enso/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 16:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jd</dc:creator>
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		<title>Dream that the World Was Ending</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/05/19/dream-that-the-world-was-ending/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 12:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We knew a little in advance &#8212; a comet was going to slam into the earth, or come so close it would suck the atmosphere away. C. &#38; I decided to spend our remaining time with a friend &#38; begin walking to her house. During our walk &#8212; through a neighborhood that, in retrospect, reminds [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We knew a little in advance &#8212; a comet was going to slam into the earth, or come so close it would suck the atmosphere away. C. &amp; I decided to spend our remaining time with a friend &amp; begin walking to her house. During our walk &#8212; through a neighborhood that, in retrospect, reminds me of Seattle&#8217;s Capitol Hill, a freezing chemical rain began to fall, coating everything with rime. We kept walking but thought this might be the end of things, but the rain slows &amp; then stops &amp; we keep walking. I see a child, almost an infant, standing alone on a street corner. There was a moment of looking around and wondering what we should do, but then I went over and picked the baby up and began carrying him with us to our friend&#8217;s house. &#8220;At least he won&#8217;t die alone,&#8221; C. said. We shared (silently) a sense of doing the right thing even when it made no difference. When we arrived at our friend&#8217;s house she was pregnant and bleeding from the nose. Her abusive boyfriend had hit her in the face, but he was still outside. The chemical rain began to fall again &amp; we discovered that the infant we had rescued was dead. We sat in our friend&#8217;s living room, on the floor, a candle in front of us, waiting.</p>
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		<title>Series of Dreams</title>
		<link>http://www.sharpsand.net/2010/05/09/series-of-dreams/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 16:19:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The soundtrack for this post is Dylan&#8217;s &#8220;Series of Dreams.&#8221; Dreams are out of fashion in psychiatry these days, but I&#8217;m still a Freudian at heart and I pay attention to my dreams when I remember them. &#8220;In Dreams Begin Responsibilities,&#8221; writes Yeats, quoting &#8220;an old play,&#8221; a sentiment then echoed by Delmore Schwartz in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The soundtrack for this post is Dylan&#8217;s &#8220;<a href="http://www.bobdylan.com/#/songs/series-of-dreams">Series of Dreams</a>.&#8221; Dreams are out of fashion in psychiatry these days, but I&#8217;m still a Freudian at heart and I pay attention to my dreams when I remember them. &#8220;In Dreams Begin Responsibilities,&#8221; writes Yeats, quoting &#8220;an old play,&#8221; a sentiment then echoed by <a href="http://www.pbs.org/hollywoodpresents/collectedstories/writing/write_schwartz_1.html">Delmore Schwartz</a> in what is probably his single <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dreams-Begin-Responsibilities-Other-Stories/dp/0811206807/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1273229671&amp;sr=1-1">most successful piece of writing</a>, unless you figure that he &#8220;wrote&#8221; Saul Bellow&#8217;s<em> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Humboldts-Gift-Penguin-Classics-Bellow/dp/0143105477/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1273229735&amp;sr=1-1">Humbolt&#8217;s Gift</a></em>. Talk about intertextuality!</p>
<p><strong>First dream:</strong> I&#8217;m an adult in my childhood home, having returned to live there with C. We have our usual crew of scruffy, noisy dogs with us and we&#8217;ve settled in &#8212; been in residence maybe two or three days. The house is a big Victorian affair with a balcony and a turret &amp; a sweeping sun porch, etc. C &amp; I are standing on the porch when an older woman, elegantly dressed, with an upswept gray coif, approaches across the driveway. <a href="http://www.sharpsand.net/wp-content/uploads/rest-home-1.jpeg" rel="shadowbox[post-2149];player=img;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2155" style="margin-top: 4px; margin-bottom: 4px; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; border: 2px solid black;" title="Where I Grew Up" src="http://www.sharpsand.net/wp-content/uploads/rest-home-1-300x186.jpg" alt="Picture from last year sent to me by a childhood friend" width="300" height="186" /></a> She&#8217;s a neighbor &amp; is leading a little schnauzer &#8212; as elegant as she is &#8212; on a lead. As she comes up to us, our terriers start barking &amp; leaping around. The woman begins to greet us, but is clearly bothered by our unkempt, delinquent dogs. She raises her eyebrows, throws her head back nose-in-the-air style, &amp; says, &#8220;Completely lacking in class &amp; breeding.&#8221;  Up to this point I&#8217;ve just been interested in meeting this neighbor, but at this point in the dream I become enraged &amp; begin shouting at her to &#8220;Get off my property, get off my god damned property! &#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Second Dream:</strong> I&#8217;m in Ho Chi Minh City, except that it is located where Ottawa ought to be; that is, close to where I actually live. I&#8217;m with some other people who have never been there before &amp; I am explaining how to get around, where to go. It is the day before I have to leave for home &amp; I am saying to one of the people I&#8217;m with, &#8220;It always breaks my heart to have to leave this place. I breaks my heart.&#8221; Then I&#8217;m by myself in a part of town I&#8217;m not familiar with and I stop at a food stall to order <em>bun cha</em> (grilled pork &amp; noodles), but either because of my poor Vietnamese or the perversity of stall owner, along with the pork and noodles I receive a grilled songbird and a frog. I decide to eat the pork but not the two more exotic offerings.</p>
<p>I see both these dreams as <em>taking control</em> dreams. One of the main themes of my dream life over the years has been<em> loss of control</em> &#8212; lost in big cities, cars that won&#8217;t steer correctly or in which the brakes don&#8217;t work, elevators that go sideways, buildings that double back on themselves just when you think you&#8217;re getting to the exit, etc. In the first dream here, I return to the scene of my childhood anguish and helplessness, move in, and defend my turf against the sort of people my parents desperately wanted to be. I woke from that one feeling proud of myself. In the second dream, set in HCMC, not Hanoi, which is my &#8220;home town&#8221; in Vietnam, I&#8217;m getting along well despite some uncertainty. The business with the food suggests to me that I don&#8217;t have to accept every aspect of Vietnamese culture &amp; that I can love the place without having to embrace everything about it. (I actually have been served whole grilled songbirds in HCMC, but never frogs.)</p>
<p>And speaking of dreams &amp; Freud &amp; all that, I love this response by Phillip Levine to his then teacher Robert Lowell, who had complained about Levine&#8217;s use of Freud, accusing him of lifting it from Auden. &#8220;Mr. Lowell,&#8221; Levine said, &#8220;I&#8217;m Jewish. I steal Freud directly from Freud; he was one of ours.&#8221; Well, I&#8217;m not Jewish, but I found Freud early and under the influence of my teacher Larry Frank made him my own. <em>The Psychopathology of Everyday Life</em>, <em>The Interpretation of Dreams</em>, <em>Civilization and its Discontents</em> &#8212; these have been maps to the world for me over the decades. Freud has been, in Lowell&#8217;s own words, one of my &#8220;Masters of Joy.&#8221;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like teaching, even after nearly thirty years. I love teaching. But I&#8217;m always happy when the end of the spring term rolls around and the students and I can take a break from each other. I&#8217;m giving an exam in my Understanding Vietnam course tomorrow, then I&#8217;ll have several days of heavy grading, then [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like teaching, even after nearly thirty years. I love teaching. But I&#8217;m always happy when the end of the spring term rolls around and the students and I can take a break from each other. I&#8217;m giving an exam in my Understanding Vietnam course tomorrow, then I&#8217;ll have several days of heavy grading, then the wide open spaces. It looks like I won&#8217;t be returning to Vietnam until winter, so I have no serious travel plans this summer. I&#8217;m hoping to finish a book of poems I&#8217;ve been puttering around with for way too long and to revise a couple of short stories I wrote last year and get them out for editors to look at. And there are some areas of our yard that need restoration, so I&#8217;ll have the shovel in my hands quite a bit as soon at the weather improves a bit &#8212; after several nice days, we woke to <em>snow</em> this morning. Snow. Yesterday, black flies, today snow.</p>
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